if u were to randomly ask any girl 'what she seeks for in a guy?'... the simplest and most straight forward answer would be 'de well known 5 C's'...
- cash
- car
- credit card
- condominium
- career
or rather a list will be spesified... which will start wit MONEY, looks n etc.. if not the first money will still occupy one of the top spots...
if a random person were to ask me, i wud instantly reply "MONEY!!!", but dat is juz coz im too lazy to explain further... once my fren told me to my face dat if all women were to think da way i did then guyz like him will never have to face difficulties getting a girl... which is quite correct but its not really true dat girls only go for money in a guy...
as for me, my list will be...
- diligence
- brains
- ambitious
- then the money
- personality
- of course a lil good lookin
- very important - family oriented which comes together wit loving
- sincere
- responsible
- romantic
- ...
the list goes on to all the lil lil things which eventually becomes a need when ur in a relationship...
my first priority wud be diligence as money does not last... so as to keep it growing one needs to put in a lot of hard work and effort and has to be persistent to accomplish what is undertaken... and u need to be smart to know when n how to be diligent... coz not every one who is diligent accomplishes his aims and goals...
most guys nowadays are pretty much aimless... no offence but i find guys aroun my age or prob even a year or 2 older very immature... but their defence always is dat they rather juz be like dat when there is no need to be serious bout things... but dats not my point... my point is even the idea of chasing for ur dreams n trying to move forward as fast to achieve as much...
then ofcourse comes the money... yes its not a neccessity as money can be earned... but imagine a child from a not so well to do family getting a degree and a child from a rich family getting a degree... yes when u start a job it doesn really matter if ur rich or poor... but its juz the matter of adding to the wealth if ur already rich and starting new if ur not... dat doesn mean dat u wont find a girl if ur not rich coz a rich guy might not have the qualities a not so well to do guy has... and besides its no use being rich and living on ur parents wealth while u don have a name of ur own to stand for... - this is my justification of why girls seek for money in a guy.
then comes the personality and the looks... for me and i think most girls who give importance to their personality themselves... its always nice to point out to a guy who stands out in a crowd n say dat he is my lover... i think the same goes for a guy... u'd not want ur gf to have low self confidence, shy, and unable to start a proper conversation wit any1 for dat matter unless ur da type who'd get intimidated by her being better than u...
and then the loving, sincere, romantic, rational, understanding n bla bla bla... dat is of course important to have the sparks goin for as long...
so here u are a list of wat a girl like me would seek for in a guy... for those who don know me... ME is outgoing yet very cultured, ambitious, gives a lot of importance to education, has a lot of ambitions waiting to be accomplished but is currently tied down with the lack of income as ME is still studying and ME is very matured for her age... ME has pretty much the characteristics of most girls nowadays...
