What is LOVE???

LOVE...
i have always wondered n have also asked many... WHAT IS LOVE??
seriously.. when u say ur in love wit some1, wat is the feeling like? how long will it last? how sure r u dat he or she is THE one? so many questions n only one answer... "u'll know when ur in love, its difficult to explain"...
but c'mon u feel a lot of emotions even when any random guy shows any extra attention... (talkin on behalf of gals)... guyz say we're desperate... but its not our fault... we need our attention... my fren once told me dat for gals, in their list of most essentials, attention would be one of the top... i do not agree to dat statement but i can't deny dat we do get a bit off track once there is any sort of attention from the opposite direction ...
anywayz back to the topic of love...
for me i feel dat love is nothing really... its juz made of little components of understanding, give and take, interest, obligations and a lot more... but most important the effort... the minute u stop putting dat extra effort everything juz breaks down... i don know for guys but im guessing its da same both ways... from my observation i find dat ppl tend to get a lil extra egoistic when they r in a relationship... they tend to expect everything to be done the unusual way...

from my experience... every component of love is inter-related... once one of it lacks some how or rather everything tends to fall apart sooner or later...

but the question is... wat if the relationship is goin perfect for one party(him) but on the other hand the other party(her) loses interest... loses interest coz there is no effort from him... he gets too comfortable wit her... he thinks dat she'll understand no matter... but for how long?? i doubt she'd be able to tolerate... she needs to get back as much as she is giving... yes it does sound unfair, but how long can she keep trying to be there while he is busy wit wat he believes in is his passion...
so, my point here is would it be unfair for her to leave the relationship n move on wit her life or shud she juz stay n try to love him back coz he loves her... would her love for him then be sincere or would it juz be an act... a show put on... but then again i have always believed in the saying dat goes "love some1 who loves u"... so which is which...
but then again thinkin rationally... love has to be 2 sided... the feelings of wateva dat describes love has to be mutual and not one sided... coz at the end of the day it still comes back to understanding, effort n ...
so i think it shud be fair enough for him to try and understand the situation rather then trying to hold her back and after she has decided to leave for good, haunt her n make her feel guilty for wat she had decided... when i think it was all his fault to start with... yes it would be riduculous to say dat i ended my relationship coz i wasn getting enough attention... but we need to understand dat its all connected... and love is not exactly as wat is portrayed in movies like.. eg; romeo and juliet...

so my conclusion would be dat love isn everlasting... it starts out with all the wonderful feelings dat cannot be expressed and as it goes it turns into obligations, expectations and a whole lot of sacrifice...
or maybe i juz haven met the right person yet...

blogging

i have been wanting to blog for a really long time... i guess it shows since my 1st and only blog b4 this was months ago... but i have always had my own excuses...
-not creative enough at writing
-nothing cool enough to write bout
-no time
-n yada yada yada...

anyway reading every1's blog i have come to realise dat who cares wat n how i write... its my blog n i shud write bout wateva i feel like writing... wateva im in the mood to write bout... but still y is it dat i m so particular of portraying this perfect personality of writing well n being this interesting person... sigh... its annoying me!!! i need to change... HELP ME....